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Speaker 1 00:00:04 Still the 50, 50 Spanish podcast. This is your host, Jesse.
Speaker 2 00:00:07 And this is
Speaker 1 00:00:07 Jessica and Sylvia. We're gonna be talking about Lok of the hustle, the hustle culture. Why? I think that even though it has a good intention, it kind of, we kind of are seeming to miss the point with it. We can get caught up too much in it. And so look so stay tuned for that. All this and more coming
Speaker 2 00:00:23 Up.
Speaker 1 00:00:49 E once again, everybody being Meles to the 50 50th span podcast, this is your host, Jesse,
Speaker 2 00:00:53 And this is Jessica.
Speaker 1 00:00:54 And before we get started quick sponsor, quick shout to our sponsors at 50 50 media. If you have a business, you have an audience. I seek. If you wanna grow, if you wanna build your brand and you're thinking, how the heck do I do that? What better way than with content? One of the best ways that we believe we're kind of biased to it, but it will stick with it is podcast. Podcast is one of the great forms of sitting there in the long format. Building your trust, building that audience, engaging with them. I see connect, convert, create all that good stuff. And we'll talk more about those sponsors, but 50, 50 media. Speaking of all this work stuff, hustling, hustling is okay. Ever since I transitioned into this whole solar entrepreneur space,
Speaker 2 00:01:34 I see what is that word?
Speaker 1 00:01:36 Hustle or solopreneur?
Speaker 2 00:01:39 Clearly
Speaker 1 00:01:40 That one it's entrepreneur. But it's the solo makes sense though. Like, I think it like, like
Speaker 2 00:01:45 Solar, Panora not
Speaker 1 00:01:46 Solar, like solo, like solo, like hon solo.
Speaker 2 00:01:49 Oh, solo Panora
Speaker 1 00:01:50 Solo. Panora yeah. Have you not heard me say that word?
Speaker 2 00:01:54 No. Okay. This, I ignore you a lot. When you talk about work,
Speaker 1 00:01:57 This is exactly what I'm talking about. This is exactly what I'm talking about. Like ever since I made this dive, it's been a shift in this end of what I'm exposed to. There's almost a lot of coach.
Speaker 2 00:02:06 So what is the word entrepreneur means?
Speaker 1 00:02:08 I mean, it's like an entrepreneur, you're a, a business venture person, right? Like somebody that's running a business,
Speaker 2 00:02:14 You could do that alone though.
Speaker 1 00:02:16 Since hand the word solo. Okay. I don't even know if it's a real word. I'm just make, I'm just, I'm just kind of like saying
Speaker 2 00:02:21 The word. Did you just make this up?
Speaker 1 00:02:22 I did not make this up. I've heard this word before. It's like, okay, you're an entrepreneur solo and it a Santoro like this whole started. Okay. Solo. Right? Okay. Han solo
Speaker 2 00:02:34 Star wars. Sure. Okay.
Speaker 1 00:02:37 But the point that I'm making here now that we're connecting now that you're like thinking, wait, where did this word come from? And there's this sponsor that we're in the entrepreneur, you know, the business space. There's a lot of, um, a lot of code switching. Kento personally, for example, it's different where people that are doing other marketing, they're doing sales that are, you know, mm-hmm, <affirmative>, um, doing some type of development. It's almost like it's own little language. And I think words like this one, so entrepreneur is words gay was made up in this space. And if you say it, and if you talk like they do, it's almost like, oh, you're part of this circle. Kitta mean ALA this jargon. You know what
Speaker 2 00:03:13 I mean? I think it's like when you start a new job and you're trying to figure out everyone's acronyms
Speaker 1 00:03:16 An exactly.
Speaker 2 00:03:18 Every department has a different acronym for different things. Solo kinda
Speaker 1 00:03:21 Like is the water cooler talk, you know, like when that means you can be in the water cooler. Right. Mm-hmm <affirmative> another thing. Yeah. I have picked up within this realm is the hustle culture. Okay. Now this is not something that's been particularly new, but ever since I remember when I was teaching quant side jobs, no,
Speaker 2 00:03:43 Uh, exhaustingly too many,
Speaker 1 00:03:48 A bunch of side jobs. Right. Too many. Yeah. A hundred percent. I always had some side job after another. And a lot of it
Speaker 2 00:03:55 Was, and not just a side job, but like also consistently talking about business ideas. Mm-hmm <affirmative> and mm-hmm, <affirmative> starting this and starting that and like, just, and it was never in one thing, it was like coffee, shop, car wash, uh, dog sitting, solar. It was just like all over the place.
Speaker 1 00:04:17 It was, it really was. And, uh, a lot of it, you know, obviously now a lot of it, I found out because it was in grandpa of my ADHD. It was in grandpa of just my boredom and unsatisfaction with like, you know, my work itself. And it was a, it was an unbalanced approach to how I was, you know, viewing work itself. Right. So I am genuinely curious and something that would always build my curiosity was different ventures. So hence side jobs and the term that, oh, well you're the type of person that's always gonna hustle.
Speaker 2 00:04:49 Yeah.
Speaker 1 00:04:50 At first, because someone that hustles is someone that can make it happen, but that's someone that's gonna figure it out. And let's be real likek. Not a lot of, not a lot of cultures out there have the renowned likek for being able to hustle. And I would go to the bus and I would drive, you know, the bus would take us to, to high school. It was like six, seven in the morning. And we would pass by the fields all the time. Mm-hmm <affirmative>, mm-hmm <affirmative>. And, but what I see, you know, and whatever
Speaker 2 00:05:24 Mind you, they had already been up for like half of their morning. Mm-hmm <affirmative>, you know, they've already been up since, you know, five hours
Speaker 1 00:05:31 Ago. And I remember that, like, I would talk with Rafa cuz Rafa and I would be there and we'd looking at them and be like, man, they are hard working.
Speaker 2 00:05:38 Yeah. Very
Speaker 1 00:05:39 Simply, you know, like people cuz they work hard. Yeah. And you know, Latino, but specifically what we know Mexicanos, we work hard. Our parents come from working hard.
Speaker 2 00:05:57 That's that's all we've seen.
Speaker 1 00:05:59 That's all we have seen. So we glorify that. We take honor in it because working hard is one of those badges that we can wear. Like if there's anything in said is, I mean, we've talked about it before Kamo to dad who knows he will literally work in the field and then go to high school. So even though ment, I never had to do that. My parents, you know, um, I was fortunate enough. They could be parents. They didn't have to like put me in that situation. Right. We were better off economically than they were when they were my age at a high school level. They'll at the same time, something in me simply say, well, I don't want to appear soft in comparison too. Like,
Speaker 2 00:06:37 Did you ever wonder like if you would make it
Speaker 1 00:06:41 Oh yeah. And on feel a hundred percent. And I know that I wouldn't, I know that yo, you know, like, first of all, I'm too tall. Like I'm surprised we've been able to put a car in space. I don't test mm-hmm <affirmative> but we haven't been able to raise the ground level to more of a hip appropriate level. But no,
Speaker 2 00:06:59 Well it has, its agriculture has its reasons, but okay. <laugh>
Speaker 1 00:07:05 Like,
Speaker 2 00:07:05 I stand on the side of agriculture,
Speaker 1 00:07:07 No in agriculture, you know, then when I hear everybody that does their day in and day out, I'm like, whoa. In that same reason, all that back break work and think, well then, you know, I now in comparison too.
Speaker 2 00:07:19 Yeah. But I feel like they, they, I know friends my age or younger can one feel for necess see that, or honestly like for fun because, um, you know, que and they can, and then ish kind of they're beat mm-hmm and they don't go back mm-hmm <affirmative> after like a couple days. Yeah. But then you hear the comments of like their parents or older friends of ours that have worked in the fields like EZ <laugh>, you know, and kind of tease it and stuff. And it's, it's like, cool. You know like Miltos but like you came here to give us a better opportunity so that we don't have to work in the field mm-hmm <affirmative> so don't tease me for not having the ability <laugh> mm-hmm <affirmative> because I wasn't being groomed for this since I was nine years
Speaker 1 00:08:18 Old. Yeah. No, a hundred percent without a hundred percent. I didn't want the shame, but at the same time, miss, like, okay, obviously can work super hard because it's not just in like the construction jobs, the roofers, the LCAP.
Speaker 2 00:08:35 Can we say
Speaker 1 00:08:36 Manual
Speaker 2 00:08:37 Labor,
Speaker 1 00:08:38 You know, umbrella, manual, labor Enso, like some type of small business or small like, you know, venture. Yeah. Is because he has his own little car wash side job, if you will, Uhhuh, you know, if someone worked for, we know people rabbi for like the local government, but their side jobs are literally landscaping P Lavia and they do their own gigs that way. Yeah. We know like, uh, commercial, clean cleaning, cleaning, you know what I mean? Like it's not just one thing. So on multiple things, it almost feels like que in our culture, like my parents and all that generation, like super, super level, like you unlock potential, you know? And I'm just like thinking, but do we
Speaker 2 00:09:28 Have
Speaker 1 00:09:28 To, I can unlock it too. <laugh>
Speaker 2 00:09:30 Yeah.
Speaker 1 00:09:31 But I'm just unlock it with all these other shenanigans that I was trying to like, you know, keep myself busy with when I was bored at work. Right. Uhhuh <affirmative>. So for that reason at first MI Gustav, the idea of hustle culture, because it keeps you busy. It kept me motivated. It kept me pushing towards something. It
Speaker 2 00:09:48 Also makes me proud in a way
Speaker 1 00:09:50 There's a lot of things to be proud of from hard work.
Speaker 2 00:09:52 Cause you know, I'm, I like to work with my hands and I'm a very crafty person. I'm a very DIY person and it just makes me proud to feel like I did that. Or I, I accomplished that. Mm-hmm <affirmative> to stay consistently, you know, moving, I guess in a way.
Speaker 1 00:10:08 And what you're mentioning there is the distinction that I wish KSAs in that term. Mm-hmm <affirmative> because you are talking about being able to look back and reflect on the hard work that was done and feel proud of it. Yeah. Whereas hustle, culture, colo Soki in this whole, like, you know, entrepreneur, um, space is, there is no reflection. All there is, is the grind. Oh. And that's the part that started getting troublesome. Yeah. Cause when we, we moved into, you know, um, being self-employed and then, you know, with our business, first of all, I couldn't have any more side projects because this project is,
Speaker 2 00:10:42 Oh, your eggs were in the basket.
Speaker 1 00:10:43 Yeah. I had to get good at this mm-hmm <affirmative> if not, then what? I had nothing to fall back on. But even though, um, I would see people and like, you know, different influencers and different people that were in sales and different business owners that, you know, dedicated themselves to one particular business, always glorified the hustle of never stopping, being like this unstoppable
Speaker 2 00:11:02 Machine machine. Oh, okay.
Speaker 1 00:11:03 Right.
Speaker 2 00:11:04 Come on. Just right. Kamal. Just not never had it being the satisfaction. Yeah. There's a hole that's not being filled.
Speaker 1 00:11:10 Exactly. It's always, it's always going and going and going
Speaker 2 00:11:14 And you're getting, and you're already, you're already moving on to the next 10 things. Mm-hmm <affirmative> you can't even appreciate what just happened. Mm-hmm <affirmative>
Speaker 1 00:11:23 Exactly. That's sad. You know, the, the hustle is a mentality it's from the state of mind that is always on.
Speaker 2 00:11:30 Do you think it comes from like, um, like they come from a scarcity mentality, right? So their guard is never down because the moment their guard is down, they don't know when their next meal is gonna come mm-hmm <affirmative> and so that's just transgenerational trauma.
Speaker 1 00:11:49 Oh definitely. It's it's a, it's a
Speaker 2 00:11:51 Reflection. It can be passed down.
Speaker 1 00:11:52 It's a reflection that the wage gap, the societal gap, the socioeconomics,
Speaker 2 00:11:57 Like I feel like the recession back in oh eight really impacted you mm-hmm <affirmative> and you're consistently trying to stay aware of the economic situation because of that, because it was yeah. You lost everything. Yeah. And so this is like, you don't wanna be back in that situation. And I see it in you a lot that you talk about it a lot and you prepare for it a lot. Gudo we were, you know, we've been fine, but now like, of course we're in another recession now and you're kind of your whole, like I told you, so just comes in, you know <laugh>. Yeah. But it can come from that, that like you can have, you can't, you can't chill, I guess, because people have always like, you know, made you feel that way of like that scarcity mm-hmm
Speaker 1 00:12:43 <affirmative> mm-hmm <affirmative> yeah. That's that's an excellent point is Moto. Because when I saw what the oh eight, you know, um, recession did to my family,
Speaker 2 00:12:54 You were like in high school or college. Yes. So you were like very aware of the, like the situation and the circumstances and the lifestyle that you guys had and now didn't have, and now wanted and had a change or whatever you guys had adapt to mm-hmm <affirmative> it wasn't like, you were a little kid, you were like, how old were you? Like 18. 18. Yeah,
Speaker 1 00:13:12 Yeah. Yeah. I would just, if anything, I graduated may of 2008 estaba, by that point, everything kind of collapsing in the financial sense and OSA. Yeah.
Speaker 2 00:13:22 And like newly graduated from high school, like what are you gonna do now? And you're kind of stuck in this really uncomfortable, not uncomfortable, but like just new, I guess for you. Yeah. Space of like, what am I gonna do? What am I gonna work on? What, you know, how am I gonna make a living? It's
Speaker 1 00:13:38 Precisely, for those reasons <inaudible>, I've been CPO. I was introduced to that whole idea of the hustle culture. It's not something that I was just, um, applying on a secular work level. I was thinking I had a hustle in everything. Right. Mm-hmm <affirmative> I had a hustle at work. I had a hustle at myself. I had a hustle, you know, in a, in a personal sense, in a work sense, in a spiritual sense, because I felt like if I let go my guard at any moment. Yeah.
Speaker 2 00:14:05 Yeah. It's
Speaker 1 00:14:05 Because I've seen it all crumbled.
Speaker 2 00:14:07 Exactly. It's a, yeah. It can come from that.
Speaker 1 00:14:10 So that at first that hustle mentality was my ambition. My drive mm-hmm <affirmative> right. Mm-hmm <affirmative> but on the more I see it now I'm realizing that this is not sustainable. Mm-hmm <affirmative> the idea of always hustling this culture is, is
Speaker 2 00:14:34 Like, you're just going and it's it on ment. You're just ping, ping,
Speaker 1 00:14:44 Plowing, plowing, plowing.
Speaker 2 00:14:45 Yeah. Plowing through. Yeah,
Speaker 1 00:14:47 Yeah. Yeah. I've seen TikTok, you know? Okay. Like, oh, how are you spending your weekends? If you're not spending your weekends in a way that's gonna give you 20 and 30 years from now life that you want, then you are wasting your time. Oh dear. You know, like, how are you spending your every single day if you're not investing it and what you want your life to be 20, 30 years from now, you're wasting your time. If you're not investing in you. And if you're not putting in the work now, how are you gonna enjoy it? 20, 30 years from now? Mm-hmm <affirmative>. And that pressure is a lot in the end, though, the value of being able to elevate your skillset, to get to some way that provides economically, or even something that you enjoy doing and handle the value of investing in yourself, but take a break, but take a break. Yeah. I'm, I'm really thankful that for me personally, the spiritual things have kept me a bit anchored and then really brought me back, you know, because,
Speaker 2 00:15:41 But yeah, because our spiritual lifestyle is our break. A lot of the times it's like, or when we have, you know, uh, consistent during the week and even events on the weekend where it's like, everything is focused on our spirituality. It's like, yeah, you, you get, you get refreshed and you feel good.
Speaker 1 00:16:05 But I even remember when I was applying that same hustle mentality in the spiritual things. Mm. Thinking like, oh, um, if I start investing or I start putting this time into this, now that means that we'll be able to do the volunteer services that we want ears in the future. And I was all, it was all banked on putting in the work now, so it can pay off later. Yeah. And that's all hustle. Culture has really turned itself into keep putting up the work now Uhhuh and the payoff will be later, except that the later is never defined. Mm. But now S now, now, now, now, now see, now whether it's work, whether it's a goal, whether whatever
Speaker 2 00:16:44 It is. Oh, is that what you sent me? That thing this morning?
Speaker 1 00:16:46 Mm. Which one?
Speaker 2 00:16:48 Like
Speaker 1 00:16:49 Oil pump vehicle
Speaker 2 00:16:50 Say,
Speaker 1 00:16:51 Yes.
Speaker 2 00:16:51 That's a good, I always think about like fancy candles, like people buy fancy candles or that like really expensive bottle of wine for a special occasion. And it's like, it's still there. Mm-hmm <affirmative> when is a special occasion coming.
Speaker 1 00:17:01 Exactly. Yeah. That, that, um, analogy. That was a really good one. But this guy was saying, right. Whether it was dinner, you know, breakfast <foreign> and the next dinner or the next meal, even because for mm-hmm <affirmative> and this guy noticed the cycle, he say, Hey man, mm-hmm <affirmative> why don't we just start with the good one it's already here
Speaker 2 00:17:33 Uhhuh, because they kept buying Newan, but he wasn't allowed to eat it first. He had to eat the Baia mm-hmm <affirmative> mm-hmm <affirmative> you know, and I understand that and stuff like that, but he was like, you're
Speaker 1 00:17:49 Depriving
Speaker 2 00:17:50 Yourself. When are we gonna have fluffy, fresh <laugh> out of the oven Bebo, you know, <laugh>
Speaker 1 00:17:56 Exactly.
Speaker 2 00:17:58 Oh, no LIO, sorry.
Speaker 1 00:18:03 Except of the,
Speaker 2 00:18:04 Instead of okay. Like pan mm-hmm <affirmative> and I mean, that's his circumstance. I know that's not everybody's circumstance, but,
Speaker 1 00:18:12 But the metaphor is clear. Mm-hmm <affirmative> the metaphor is clear. He, when you are so stuck in the mentality and it's gonna pay off later, why not be able to find that balance where enjoy the now yeah. Enjoy the now it'll work.
Speaker 2 00:18:28 It'll work. It'll work. Is that what you're gonna title this? That's
Speaker 1 00:18:31 That's
Speaker 2 00:18:31 That's Spanish, English.
Speaker 1 00:18:33 It it'll work. If there's anything that's been obvious that later that we're hoping for. We don't know. We don't know. We have hosts for it. You and I, but at the same time, we can have the balance now. And
Speaker 2 00:18:49 It can, I, can I share a TikTok that I, a sound that I've been repeating to myself? Sure.
Speaker 3 00:18:56 People say, what are you doing? You say things that please me. And they say toward what end, and you say pleasure. And they say, but really what are you working on? And you say, having a good time. And I say, but what do you hope to accomplish? And you say, living happily ever after. And they say, but what do you want to leave is your legacy. And you say, I was a happy one. And they say, but what is the mark that you want to leave? Life is joyous. But
Speaker 1 00:19:21 Exactly, exactly. Those
Speaker 2 00:19:23 Hat, of course, we're not living just for pleasure. No, you know, there's a, there's a happy medium somewhere, you know, but I
Speaker 1 00:19:28 There's a purpose can also
Speaker 2 00:19:31 Like, like it's triggering me that people ask me what I'm up to. Right. In, in a work sense. Yeah. And I'm like, I'm just trying to have a happy life. I'm just trying to enjoy my everyday with the little things that I do, or the big things that I do. Mm-hmm <affirmative> with what? End to have a happy life. Exactly. That to live happy.
Speaker 1 00:19:50 Exactly. That this whole time. And particularly <inaudible> I know this is my own personal experience when it comes to it. It'll like my quote unquote hustle was geared towards working towards something, but that something was not coming E NOK because I wasn't working hard enough.
Speaker 2 00:20:07 Yeah.
Speaker 1 00:20:08 But it was because I was approaching it with the wrong attitude or the wrong mentality. So it goes back to everything that we've been learning again, you know, like in the most basic principle spiritual sense is that when it comes to balance, it's all the perception of how you approach it. What
Speaker 2 00:20:23 Do you think about balance?
Speaker 1 00:20:24 What I think about balance now? Mm-hmm <affirmative> is I remember that when I would read, let's say, let's say a, a scripture, a basic principle, like there's a time for everything. Right? Uhhuh, it's almost a prove within itself. Same. I used to think solely on a superficial level, decade mm-hmm <affirmative> but now I'm applying it to what I think should, should have been the most obvious one that I was not catching on.
Speaker 2 00:20:51 Oh, see, like you're you're
Speaker 1 00:20:55 Yeah. Throughout my day, me. So I apply it on my day. That way now, like when I wake up IPO,
Speaker 2 00:21:04 Everything has its
Speaker 1 00:21:05 Place. I am to be grateful Uhhuh. I am to, you know, have my morning routine. I, to, you know, meditate on myself, you know, to ponder there's to spend time with you. There's and I am glad that I'm seeing it now, even though it took me forever to kind of see it, cuz I was enamored by this idea of hustle, hustle, hustle, hustle, again, nothing wrong with working hard. We know what it looks like to work hard. We come from hard workers. We have worked hard Beto
Speaker 2 00:21:37 And we still work.
Speaker 1 00:21:38 No, absolutely. <laugh> we still work
Speaker 2 00:21:41 Beto. It's just not like, I mean <foreign> how many, how many, you know, is it stereo? Not stereotypes? What's the word here?
Speaker 2 00:21:50 Just normal or normalizing. Yeah. We're just, you know, we're different. We've always been different. We've always done things out of the box to what our culture and our families are used to seeing mm-hmm <affirmative> you know, the only thing we did, uh, stereotypical is that we got married very young as all Hispanics <laugh> as most Hispanics do. Yeah. But like we don't have kids, we don't work conventional jobs. Um, and it's we travel a lot. We love to travel. We like to immerse ourselves in other culture when sometimes I feel like people are just so stuck on just work and work and work and save and save and save. And it's like, when are you gonna start living?
Speaker 1 00:22:31 When are you gonna start enjoying this life? Yeah. And I'm glad they CA I'm not gonna say that all of it was bad because a lot of it did help me to push towards investing in myself. Mm-hmm <affirmative>. But when, when it was solely that focused, I was letting things slip. I was letting things slip that should have brought me joy. Mm-hmm <affirmative> you know, mm-hmm <affirmative> and I was so focused on the soon and the later
Speaker 2 00:22:53 Uhhuh.
Speaker 1 00:22:54 Okay. No, the now, and that's one of the,
Speaker 2 00:22:57 Enjoy the
Speaker 1 00:22:58 Now caveats or the biggest drawbacks with same that just keep hustling, keep hustling, keep hustling, you know, mm-hmm <affirmative> because we're more than just that we're more than just working machines and it's, it's a culmination in, uh, of the time that we're in right now because kit three, stay ands skid three. Instead of having a job that allows a balance where you can then dedicate it to your family. A lot of people pick up side hustles because they kind of have to right. Like, oh, these people, like, for example, I know teachers, they get, they would have to work extra jobs because they weren't getting paid enough. I know
Speaker 2 00:23:32 People that
Speaker 1 00:23:32 Cities that they would clock outta work and then go Uber and then go do Uber eats and then go do that because they were trying to pay the rent mm-hmm <affirmative> so it all stemmed from a necessity, got glamorized by this hustle idea. Mm-hmm <affirmative> and
Speaker 2 00:23:47 It almost didn't trap you. It almost sounds com okay. Like what your worth is.
Speaker 1 00:23:52 Oh dude.
Speaker 2 00:23:53 Yes. Attached
Speaker 1 00:23:54 A hundred percent.
Speaker 2 00:23:55 And that hits the nail in the head. That is what triggers me.
Speaker 1 00:23:59 That's what, that's what, that's what would drive me crazy that my value, my worth was being measured in my level of hustle.
Speaker 2 00:24:06 Yeah. And being criticized. Yeah. Being criticized because like, what do you mean? You're, you're how old, like you're at this age, you know, you're a minority demographic, like ASPAC you squeeze and sees a day, you know, mm-hmm <affirmative> and I think with women it's this it's it's that, that like boss girl, like mentality right now. Like you, and it's great if you can and you want to, but if that's not your goal, if that's not your goal, then it's okay. Mm-hmm <affirmative>, that's not my worth.
Speaker 1 00:24:37 Exactly. That's one of my biggest issues with they, they equivalate or they, you are worth X amount. Mm-hmm <affirmative> by the amount that you are hustling or, or working towards too. Yeah. Well, in area Sorita we were able to just strive for balance and it makes us look M okay. Oh, well, we probably don't want enough. That's not true. Yeah. We want it.
Speaker 2 00:24:59 And we're not lazy and we're not wasting our time.
Speaker 1 00:25:02 We're just trying to have the balance now mm-hmm, <affirmative>, we're working now, but we're also enjoying the now Uhhuh. And if we, I, I, I strongly believe that if we strive towards that now the later will be more of what we're enjoying now mm-hmm
Speaker 2 00:25:17 <affirmative> and no, and avoiding burnout, because then you have that whole realm of burnout and, and people ending up in hospitals and their bodies collapse. I mean, we've, I've seen it online too, where
Speaker 1 00:25:31 I've seen it with teachers. I've seen it just about every profession, people that are just they're tired mm-hmm they are tired. But again, they're, um, a lot of them falling under that same pressure that get, you know, you're measured by what you're putting out. Yeah. That's, I mean, that's, that's our perspective, you know, I'd be, I'd be curious to know what you guys think, let us know in the comments, you know, we're gonna be posting this online, let us know in the website, let us know on, you know, social media is done. Its on the, the media has done not really. I mean this is our, our take growing up with it as well, based on our experiences. So be really curious to see, you know,
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Speaker 2 00:27:39 Also like yeah.
Speaker 1 00:27:40 Now it's part to the living park. Like live,
Speaker 2 00:27:43 Have a good long weekend
Speaker 1 00:27:44 Guys. A good long weekend. Go out, relax on barbecue. Spend time with the family, throw a, a Frisbee. Oh apparently I'm gonna go disc golfing. That should be fun.
Speaker 2 00:27:53 Enjoy it.
Speaker 1 00:27:54 I'm gonna, you know what I wanna do with disc coughing fun fact, like I like this golfing because it's like the most, the more casual version of the goody two shoes, golfing, golfing.
Speaker 2 00:28:04 Same
Speaker 1 00:28:06 Through through golfing. Okay. You know, but this golf is like dad, bod middle class citizens. Right. However,
Speaker 2 00:28:14 I have no idea, but okay. Yeah.
Speaker 1 00:28:16 <laugh> however I want to go dis golfing in like the typical Irish golfer suit, you know like the long wool socks, the little is that your here that you like, you're not, you're not, you don't care what my outfit looks like.
Speaker 2 00:28:32 I like that. You wanna dress the part. That sounds cute.
Speaker 1 00:28:35 Yeah, dude. I wanna dress up like typical Irish, like golfing from like the 17th century.
Speaker 2 00:28:40 Do women do it golf? No.
Speaker 1 00:28:44 This golf Uhhuh. I'm pretty sure they do. Like this golf is modern bro. Yeah. Yeah. Women. This golf. Okay. Probably. You're not as good as me, but
Speaker 2 00:28:51 Whatever. It just sounds like it's a guy thing,
Speaker 1 00:28:54 Such a dude thing. I mean, it's very dude like once he said dude side.
Speaker 2 00:29:00 Well, I mean, is that a big dude side? I've only known a couple of people to do
Speaker 1 00:29:03 It, so, and they're mostly dudes.
Speaker 2 00:29:05 Mm-hmm
Speaker 1 00:29:06 <affirmative> I mean, I don't have a lot of dude activities. This is kind of good balance.
Speaker 2 00:29:08 You wanna dress the dad, the dad bought part.
Speaker 1 00:29:11 You don't,
Speaker 2 00:29:11 You're
Speaker 1 00:29:12 Not a dad about the Irish. Typical. Like I see like old school. Have you ever seen like the golf back in the day? Like
Speaker 2 00:29:17 The, no, no. Like cricket,
Speaker 1 00:29:21 No
Speaker 2 00:29:21 Dude like that kind of outfit.
Speaker 1 00:29:22 Like
Speaker 2 00:29:23 The sweater, like Downton Abbey, when they go hunting it's like, why are you wearing a whole school? The
Speaker 1 00:29:27 Sweater vest.
Speaker 2 00:29:28 Why are you wearing TWI
Speaker 1 00:29:30 TWI
Speaker 2 00:29:31 To go hunting black
Speaker 1 00:29:32 TWI? You know what I mean? The little hat.
Speaker 2 00:29:34 I think you that's so hot.
Speaker 1 00:29:37 I know I have to do it somewhere. That's cooler. If it, I wanna dress up to that level because golf back in the day, they would basically do wear a three piece. Right. And this golf is basically the more casual, cool athletic approach to it. So of course, and go like, I like
Speaker 2 00:30:01 It. Especially when it comes to sports.
Speaker 1 00:30:04 Mm-hmm <affirmative> you should come play with us like a woman. But let's be honest. I don't do a lot of guy things like a lot of guy like focus things. So
Speaker 2 00:30:15 I'm not against moving your body. Mm-hmm <affirmative>, I'm just the least competitive person in our circle of family and friends.
Speaker 1 00:30:26 You compete with yourself.
Speaker 2 00:30:28 Exactly.
Speaker 1 00:30:28 You can do that. And just,
Speaker 2 00:30:29 I can go by myself. I don't need a crowd. I don't need people there.
Speaker 1 00:30:35 You wanna dis call by yourself?
Speaker 2 00:30:37 Mm. I like individual activities.
Speaker 1 00:30:39 It could be individual say
Speaker 2 00:30:40 I like your individual. Yes. But you see what happens when people look at me?
Speaker 1 00:30:45 Oh yeah. You get you.
Speaker 2 00:30:46 I don't social anxiety. I don't like people looking at me. And I like people staring at me. You
Speaker 1 00:30:50 Guys made me,
Speaker 2 00:30:51 I was criticized a lot as a youngster. So I feel like I just don't like it. It makes me uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 00:30:57 You're gonna say baseball. Gonna say
Speaker 2 00:30:58 Space. So it's not that I don't want to mm-hmm <affirmative> it's not that I'm like, that's dumb. It's just that I don't care. Mm-hmm <affirmative> I don't care for it. And I'm not competitive. So any type of activity that involves pointy points and people trying to argue about me at the goal, that one little corner. So I get a point I'm like, I don't, I don't care. Mm. So it's not fun. It's funny. I'm not a fun teammate and that's not fun for me. And I don't make it fun. You're
Speaker 1 00:31:30 Right. Like this whole, like you suck the fun outta this whole conversation. You're talking about dis golfing right
Speaker 2 00:31:33 Now. Yeah, I know. <laugh>
Speaker 1 00:31:36 I know. Well, I'll go dis golfing. This.
Speaker 2 00:31:39 I would like to go hiking.
Speaker 1 00:31:40 Let's go hiking. Let's go. Let's go. Enjoy this weekend. Yeah. All right. Everybody else. Enjoy your weekend November, everyone. Thank you all for listening to the
Speaker 2 00:31:49 50, 50.
